Wednesday, June 14, 2006

all my friends are getting married

this is bizarre but expected. i am now 26 years old. i'm going to a wedding this saturday (after my fabulous party i'll be having on friday night - come to my party!). i went to a wedding about 3 weeks ago. i just got a call from a friend who just got engaged. i have 2 more friends getting married this fall. my grade 12 grad date + a bit more than a friend is expecting his first child (well, his wife is).
i'm so not even there yet.
will i ever jump on this train? i'm not opposed to it... it just seems a bit out of place in my life right now. am i heading into sex and the city territory? i don't know. if i am i hope i get the wardrobe to match asap!
30 is getting closer, and i keep wandering farther from the path of committment... although, i feel a bit closer to 'happily ever after.' i'm not anti-committment, it's just not for me at this moment. i know it is quite possible that i will get to that place again, and it is also quite possible that i will go back and forth again - and maybe again and again.
is this a bad thing? meh.


DancingAntsInMyPants said...

I don't think it's a bad thing at all. You have to be true to yourself and your goals before lifelong commitment....or any sort of stable one. At least, that's how i feel.

and who wants that when you still probably have another 60 odd years left to live???

live it up BEEOTCH!

skinny-rabbit said...

I have a wedding in August (and the bride is pregnant), 3 more engaged friends, 2 recently married, another pregnant, and another with a baby. Plus all my cousins and my cousins' children, most of whom are younger than me, are all married with/and/or expecting children. And yet I still feel no pressure. I think they're all crazy for doing it all this young. Like DancyAntsyPantsyNancyAnneCianci says you have another like 60 some years to go. Life's only just begun.

nosiren said...

You are so not getting close to 30.

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