Wednesday, June 21, 2006

sex vs love

a quote from douglas coupland:
"somewhere, years ago, so many of us broke the link between love and sex. Once broken, it can never be fixed again."
is this true? i think i made that separation once i decided to 'liberate' myself and start acting more like a man. having sex like it was my right - like it was a hobby. like this is supposed to be a good thing, an empowering thing. now i realize that men seem to be more fucked up than women. i think it could be fixed though.
the thing is, i don't want to give up good ole recreational sex - but the next time i'm really really into someone - i think i might want it to be something more.

4 comments:

bedroomprince said...

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dancing girl said...

That's a tough link to fix. I'm still trying to figure out how.

Warrior Princesse Alathariel said...

Sex can be whatever you want it to be!

artsmonkey said...

it can be whatever we want it to be, but it's easy to fall into habits, and forget the stuff that made it so good/bad in the first place....
does that make sense?