Sunday, May 20, 2007

questions

when two people in a seemingly 'good' relationship break up - the people surrounding them become unsettled. one of the most diffucult things about ending a relationship is answering people's questions. and i know it shouldn't matter... but for some reason it adds to the weight of change.

8 comments:

Invalid Password said...

sweet

warriorprincesse said...

it is really hard. what are you supposed to say? it's a shame private conversations are not filmed and broadcast so that everyone understands.

Neenia said...
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Neenia said...

but on the other hand, if we were to make no mention of it at all and go about our lives as if you were not going through a really rough time, you would think we were being insensitive and wonder why no one wanted to know if you were alright.

nosiren said...

like neenia, i think it's because people care. but yes, it's interesting how what we think is a relationship between 2 people becomes something involving all of those around us, as well. maybe that's why it's such a big deal for us individualistic westerners to introduce our significant others to our friends and families. . . unlike those who are more used to community decision-making in all aspects of their lives.

warriorprincesse said...

personally, I haven't been offended. when my mom asked, I was annoyed. when practical strangers on facebook asked, I was annoyed. But I NEEEEDED to talk about it, so when my friends asked, I answered. I knew there was no stigma attatched to the questions. well, I hoped...

artsmonkey said...

it's not really an offense - and it's great to know that friends care, but it's so hard to answer those questions even for yourself.

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